Where are your ‘gods’?

Before I begin, let me just remind anyone reading this of something my mother always taught me: “Whenever you point a finger at someone, remember, three are pointing back at you [me]!”😌

Very few religions in the world still believe in idols of gold, stone or wood. Hinduism has thousands of “gods” that inhabit temples throughout the subcontinent, but Hindus to whom I have spoken disavow worshiping the statues. They claim the statues only represent the “god” who lives with Shiva, Vishnu or as some adjunct to Brahman, the ultimate reality. Their prayers to the statues are just wishes for fulfillment of whatever that particular “god” is in charge.

Buddhists disdain “gods” altogether and simply strive for “enlightenment” as Gautama Buddha is thought to have attained. They simply revere him with statues to remind them of the path they are traveling. Intelligent Buddhists claim they are simply paying respect to him when they prostrate themselves before a statue, although some do really worship the statue itself, believing that the Bodhisattvas present in the icon will help them reach a higher plain of existence.

These practices in our times are similar to what Roman Catholics say to protestants about praying to statues in cathedrals. They claim to not be praying to the statue as though “it” could help them, but they are praying to the person the statue represents, though I have some Biblical concerns with praying to anyone except The God Who Is. As a Bible student, I wonder, “Why bother with a subordinate when Biblically, we have access directly to Father God?” (Matthew 6:5-7)

We can conclude not very many worship idols like the Philistines or the Canaanites. These societies in the land God promised to Jacob actually worshiped their graven images… like the Israelites worshiped the golden calf, waiting for Moses to come down from the mountain (Exodus 32). Idol worshiping societies actually imbued their false god’s representation with the expectation that the statue heard their appeals. But we don’t do that anymore. Even Hindus, Buddhists and Roman Catholics have wised up to the silliness that a statue could be alive.  

And we evangelicals never had any problem with idols anyway, right?!

Think again as you read Ezekiel 14! YHWH tells the prophet: “Son of man, these men have taken their idols into their hearts, and set the stumbling block of their iniquity before their faces.” Wow! And they didn’t even have the internet yet! Jesus taught that it was not what a man ate that polluted him, but rather what came out of his mouth (Matthew 15:10-20). And Ezekiel heard it straight from the Creator centuries earlier.

Thus we conclude idolatry does not require a statue, icon, or physical representation to be present in our hearts. Anger, envy, gluttony, greed, lust, pride and sloth are the Seven Deadly Sins, any one of which can become our “god.” Do you really have a “right” to be angry at a stupid driver? Are you harboring an idol of jealousy for someone’s spouse, another’s success or ability? How is your internet viewing? Have you put off that unpleasant task too long, hoping it will just go away? Obviously, these are “idols” whose worship will destroy us; ergo the name, the Seven Deadly Sins.

However, some idols in our hearts may be “good things,” in and of themselves. After all, every good and perfect gift comes down from the Father of Lights with whom there is no shadow of change. When we begin to value the gift more than the Giver, though, we are in trouble. We have taken idols into our hearts. A good job, a nice house, a comfortable life, pleasant travels, a peaceful place to live, good neighbors? Any of these may become false gods if we do not keep them in their proper perspective.

Of course,  there is always the possibility that any gift Father has provided could be removed. After all, HE is God and we are not. There are mysteries in His view that we will not understand in this life; possibly not even the next, but many of the things that confuse us now will be clarified when we “know even as we are known” (1 Corinthians 13:12).

It is easy enough to get rid of an idol of gold, stone or wood. A furnace can melt gold, a sledge can crush stone and a saw and fire can destroy wood. But how do we get rid of idols that have no physical manifestation? Ezekiel says, “Repent and turn away from your idols, and turn away your faces from all your abominations.” Easier said than done. 

To repent means to express godly sorrow and turn away from previous behavior. However, many of us find ourselves continuously struggling with clinging sins (Hebrews 12:1). How many times must we pray, “It’s me again, Lord.  I repent of this sin of…” How many times can we expect Father to answer with a loving, “Yes, I forgive you for Jesus’ sake.”

The best news is that He promises as long as we present with sincere hearts, and do not become discouraged or complacent about sin, HE WILL forgive! Every time! 70 times 7 (Matthew 18:22) or ad infinitum! He will not despise a broken and contrite heart, no matter how many times we come to Him. This is not an excuse to say, “Well, I’ll go on sinning because God will keep forgiving me.” That is an attitude ripe for destruction; a new idol of complacency erected in our hearts. But if we continually scorn the sin, we will eventually find His strength made perfect in our weakness and overcome it (2 Corinthians 12:9).

So rest in Him. Trust Him and His revelation that He has provided in Jesus, the Messiah. Be faithful in reading and studying Scripture. Pray continually (you know, that constant monologue you have about things around you – direct that to Him). Thus, whether we live or die, we are His (Romans 14:8) and His “love has been poured into our hearts through the Holy Spirit who has been given to us” (Romans 5:5).

For Your Eyes Only… A Covenant for Men

Idolatry is the worship of anything that is NOT the true and living God, the Creator, The God Who Is, whose “Name” is YHWH or Yahweh.  Sunday last our Living Word class looked at 1 Samuel 12-13, particularly, 12:21Samuel said to the people, Indeed, you must not turn aside, for then you would go after useless things [idols] which cannot benefit or save, because they are useless.”

The guide for our class noted that in the West we do not worship physical idols like Chemosh, Asherah, Baal nor any statues of wood, silver or gold (?), but asked the class to identify modern Western “idols.”  Some were quick to note fame, wealth, and power as “gods” to which we devote ourselves.  With about 50% men in the class, I wondered if anyone, myself included, would venture to identify one of American men’s most common idols, pornography.  My suspicion is that it was not mentioned for fear that whoever brought it up would be suspected of being a porn users!

Pornography is a scourge on American men and how one deals with it as an ongoing addiction affects how a man views women, interacts with others and warrants attention if one is to be free from it.  There are various programs and online assistants (see list at the end of this blog) to help men become unfettered from porn’s chains.  Almost all of these projects address some level of accountability; finding a friend to share the struggle.  Some of us may be able to overcome sexual or pornography addiction without this, but most will find themselves repeating a cycle of lust, satisfaction, guilt, recommitment, lust… endlessly without someone to share the load.

Speaker of the House, Mike Johnson, came under heavy political fire for admitting that he and his son were “accountability partners” using Covenant Eyes, a costly monitoring program that is designed to reveal to your partner any time you access “questionable content” on whatever devices you have logged with the system.  Whether you agree with Speaker Johnson’s politics or not, this was an admirable step to protect his then 17-year-old son from becoming addicted to porn.

Pornography is SOOO easy to get with the advent of computers and smartphonesDavid Wilkerson, in his 1974 book, The Vision, prophesied accurately that R-rated movies would soon be available on television and that our nation would experience a flood of filth such as it had never seen, even in the Roaring 1920s.  Much of his vision has already come to pass, but there is more to it that is still in the future.  (Keep in mind, any time a “prophet” speaks, we who follow Jesus are to “weigh what is said,” (1 Corinthians 14:29) and anything Father says through a prophet will line up with what He has revealed in the Bible. (See Jeremiah 29.))

The rampant hyper-sexuality of our society mirrors the Roman culture to which Paul wrote in 1 Corinthians 7 with advice to married people.  The prevalence of temptation is why he commanded that married couples should satisfy each other’s sexual desires to help in overcoming temptation, but that by concession he affirms that he would rather the unmarried remain single if they are able to exercise this gift.  Many of us are not so gifted as was Paul.

For those of us men who have strong sexual desires, we must confront our sexual appetite with self-control, especially in the area of pornography.  Do not use excuses such as “Well, it’s not like I’m actually committing adultery.” (Matthew 5:28)  “No one is being hurt by my looking.” (1 Thessalonians 4:3-5; 2 Timothy 2:22)  “No one has to know.” (Numbers 32:23; Matthew 6:6)  “I can quit anytime.” (Proverbs 26:24-28)  These are probably the most common lies the devil will speak into a man to keep him bound in the sin of pornography, but there are others.  “Do not be deceived: God is not mocked, for whatever one sows, that will he also reap.  For the one who sows to his own flesh will from the flesh reap corruption, but the one who sows to the Spirit will from the Spirit reap eternal life.” (Galatians 6:7-8)

Jesus is coming again soon, my brothers, and we must be ready!  Do whatever it takes to get free from “stronghold” sin.  For the weapons of our warfare are not of the flesh but have divine power to destroy strongholds.  We destroy arguments and every lofty opinion raised against the knowledge of God, and take every thought captive to obey Christ, being ready to punish every disobedience, when your obedience is complete.  Look at what is before your eyes. (2 Corinthian 10:4-7)

Very few of us could make the claims Job made, but it is worth considering that if God has forgiven us our sins, we need to live closer to what Job declared, and make a “covenant with our eyes.”   If there is no one in your circle whom you can trust to covenant with you and you need someone, reach out to me via my Contact on my Home Page.

JOB 31
“I have made a covenant with my eyes;

How then could I look at a virgin?
   And what is the portion of God from above,
Or the inheritance of the Almighty from on high?
   Is it not disaster to the criminal,
And misfortune to those who practice injustice?
   Does He not see my ways,
And count all my steps?

“If I have walked with deception,
And my foot has hurried after deceit,
   Let Him weigh me with accurate scales,
And let God know my integrity.
   If my step has turned from the way,
Or my heart followed my eyes,
Or if any spot has stuck to my hands,
   Let me sow and another eat,
And let my crops be uprooted.

“If my heart has been enticed by a woman,
Or I have lurked at my neighbor’s doorway,
   May my wife grind grain for another,
And let others kneel down over her.
   For that would be a lustful crime;
Moreover, it would be wrongdoing punishable by judges.
   For it would be fire that consumes to Abaddon,
And would uproot all my increase.

“If I have rejected the claim of my male or female slaves
When they filed a complaint against me,
   What then could I do when God arises?
And when He calls me to account, how am I to answer Him?
   Did He who made me in the womb not make him,
And the same one create us in the womb?

“If I have kept the poor from their desire,
Or have caused the eyes of the widow to fail,
   Or have eaten my morsel alone,
And the orphan has not shared it
   (But from my youth he grew up with me as with a father,
And from my infancy I guided her),
   If I have seen anyone perish for lack of clothing,
Or that the needy had no covering,
   If his waist has not thanked me,
And if he has not been warmed with the fleece of my sheep,
   If I have lifted up my hand against the orphan,
Because I saw I had support in the gate,
   May my shoulder fall from its socket,
And my arm be broken off at the elbow.
   For disaster from God is a terror to me,
And because of His majesty I can do nothing.

“If I have put my confidence in gold,
And called fine gold my trust,
   If I have gloated because my wealth was great,
And because my hand had obtained so much;
   If I have looked at the sun when it shone,
Or the moon going in splendor,
   And my heart was secretly enticed [to worship them],
And my hand threw a kiss from my mouth,
   That too would have been a guilty deed calling for judgment,
For I would have denied God above.

“Have I rejoiced at the misfortune of my enemy,
Or become excited when evil found him?
   No, I have not allowed my mouth to sin
By asking for his life in a curse.
   Have the people of my tent not said,
‘Who can find one who has not been satisfied with his meat’?
    The stranger has not spent the night outside,
For I have opened my doors to the traveler.
   Have I covered my wrongdoings like a man,
By hiding my guilt in my shirt pocket,
   Because I feared the great multitude
And the contempt of families terrified me,
And I kept silent and did not go out of doors?
   Oh that I had one to hear me!
Here is my signature;
Let the Almighty answer me!
And the indictment which my adversary has written,
   I would certainly carry it on my shoulder,
I would tie it to myself like a garland.
   I would declare to Him the number of my steps;
Like a prince, I would approach Him.

“If my land cries out against me,
And its furrows weep together;
   If I have eaten its fruit without money,
Or have caused its owners to lose their lives,
   May the thorn-bush grow instead of wheat,
And stinkweed instead of barley.”

The words of Job are ended.

Online helps for establishing accountability and overcoming pornography addiction:
Covenant Eyes
https://www.wikihow.com/Deal-With-Porn-Addiction
https://puredesires.org
https://www.cru.org/us/en/train-and-grow/life-and-relationships/hardships/set-free-pornography-addiction.html
https://www.audible.com/podcast/Episode-108-Starting-The-Journey-to-Freedom-from-Porn-Addiction/B0CRFZVZPF
https://seekingintegrity.com/https://sexandrelationshiphealing.com
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/fixing-families/202102/addicted-porn-how-get-back-in-control

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